Thursday, January 23, 2025

How many Gitas?

When we hear the word “Gita,” most of us instantly think of the Bhagavad Gita, Krishna’s timeless dialogue with Arjuna. But the Gita tradition is far richer and broader. The word Gita simply means “song” or “divine song of wisdom.” Across Indian scriptures, many such songs exist—each offering a unique vision of life, duty, and liberation.

Here are some of the most well-known:

  • Bhagavad Gita: Part of the Mahabharata, where Krishna explains dharma, yoga, and the path to self-realization.

  • Ashtavakra Gita: A deep, non-dualistic dialogue between Sage Ashtavakra and King Janaka; focuses on pure awareness and liberation.

  • Uddhava Gita: Krishna’s final teachings to Uddhava in the Bhagavata Purana; more philosophical and devotional in tone.

  • Rama Gita: Rama’s instructions to Lakshmana in the Adhyatma Ramayana, centered on bhakti and detachment.

  • Devi Gita: Found in the Devi Bhagavatam, where the Divine Mother reveals the path of devotion and self-realization.

  • Avadhuta Gita: Attributed to Sage Dattatreya; celebrates the state of absolute freedom beyond all dualities.

  • Shiva Gita: Dialogue between Lord Shiva and Rama (in some texts); expounds on Vedanta and devotion.

  • Ganesha Gita, Hamsa Gita, Anu Gita, Guru Gita: Lesser-known yet profound texts exploring various aspects of yoga, devotion, and the guru-disciple relationship.

What’s fascinating is that all these Gitas share a core purpose: to awaken us to our true nature and guide us towards inner freedom. While each has a different teacher, student, and context, the essence is the same: wisdom sung straight from the heart.

So next time someone says “the Gita,” remember; there isn’t just one. The tradition has gifted us many songs of wisdom. Maybe start exploring one beyond the familiar Bhagavad Gita. You might discover a melody that speaks directly to your soul.

Musings

Life is small. It just feels big.

It vanishes in no time

It is precious. It is beautiful.

Spread happiness and comforting words wherever you go

Live an ideal life, so that you can lead a satisfied life without regrets

Take good care of yourself

Connect to God

Drop expectations from the world.


Paropakaram Idam Shariram: This Body Is For Service

 Paropakaram idam shariram

This human body is not merely for our own pleasures, but for helping, serving, and uplifting others. 

This statement appears in many Sanskrit texts such as the Hitopadesha and Subhashita collections, which preserve pearls of wisdom for righteous living. The essence is clear: human life finds fulfillment only when it is used for the benefit of others.

History offers us many examples, and one of the brightest among them is Abraham Lincoln. Lincoln rose from humble beginnings to become the 16th President of the United States. His leadership was marked by one defining act of courage, the abolition of slavery. In a world torn by divisions of race, power, and prejudice, he chose the harder path: to stand for freedom and equality. People of his time said, “God in heaven and Abraham Lincoln on earth – we only have these two to look after us.” Such was the reverence he commanded, not because of wealth or status, but because of his selflessness and unshakable moral compass.

History shows that those who co-operate, who stand together for a cause greater than themselves, are the ones who rise to true heights. 

In leadership, paradoxically, it is by giving that one receives. A selfless leader does not shrink in identity; instead, they expand, becoming a symbol of hope and inspiration. 

In our own families, workplaces, and communities, we can choose to live by paropakaram. To smile at someone in distress, to lend a helping hand, to speak truth when it matters – these too are acts of service that elevate the human spirit.

In today’s world of competition and self-interest, the teaching of paropakaram is a gentle reminder that our life gains value only when it touches other lives. A professional who mentors others, a teacher who lights the lamp of knowledge with care, a citizen who contributes to community welfare all live this principle in practice. 

When we act selflessly, we don’t lose anything; instead, our sense of identity expands. Service enhances the self, giving us joy, respect, and immortality in memory.

True greatness is born not in self-centered pursuits but in selfless contributions.


Tear down the walls - Jan Nigro

There are walls of concrete, walls of steel

But the thickest one's you'll find

Are the walls that people put up

In their hearts and in their minds


Walls because of different skin

Or the features on a person's face

Walls because of their religion

Their language or native place


The more walls you put around you

The walls are gonna block your view!


Tear down....tear down the walls!

Love flows freely when they fall

In your heart can't you hear the call

To tear down, tear down the walls.


When we win the battle in our hearts

The walls come tumbling down

The battle over ignorance and fear

Love can make them both disappear




Monday, September 23, 2024

Calling A Spade A Spade

Speaking the truth as it is, without hiding behind polite half-truths, takes courage. That’s what “calling a spade a spade” really means. In a world where people often soften or avoid reality to keep the peace, honest words can feel rare, but they’re deeply valuable.

Why is it Important?

Truth builds trust. When we name things as they are, people know where we stand. It saves time, reduces confusion, and helps us address real issues instead of avoiding them. Honest conversations make relationships and decisions healthier.

But Is There An Art of Doing It?

Of Course, Yes! It can damage relations if it is not done with empathy or an understanding of the perspective of the person receiving the feedback. Calling a spade a spade doesn’t mean being harsh. There’s a way to be truthful without hurting someone's self-worth:

  • Speak with empathy: Be mindful of the other person’s feelings.

  • Choose your words carefully: Firm but respectful language works better than blunt attacks.

  • Check your intent: Ask yourself, “Am I saying this to help or just to hurt?”

  • Be willing to face your own truths: Honest self-reflection makes your words more authentic.

Calling a spade a spade is not about being blunt for the sake of it; it’s about being honest in a way that leads to trust, understanding, and positive change. Otherwise, the whole point of giving feedback can become futile and can damage situations.

Friday, September 6, 2024

The Teacher’s Journey: Reflections Beyond Teacher’s Day

The 5th of September just passed; a date etched in the hearts of many of us as Teacher’s Day. I still remember the celebrations in school: in the younger grades, we watched our seniors step into the shoes of teachers for a day, and by the time I reached Class 12, I too got to “teach” for one morning. Back then, it felt like a day of fun; no studies, laughter, and some speeches on the role of teachers and the life of Dr. Sarvepalli Radhakrishnan.

Stories from My Grandmother

My grandmother often told me stories of her visits to her very own uncle (mama), Dr. Sarvepalli Radhakrishnan — the first Vice President of India, a philosopher, and above all, a teacher. She would speak of her visits to him and observing his warmth, brilliance, and ability to connect with people. As a child, these were just fascinating family tales. But as I grew up and read about his life and philosophy, I realized the immense legacy I was blessed to be connected with.

When I was invited this year to speak about Dr. Radhakrishnan to students, I dived deeper into his thoughts. I finally understood why he placed such profound importance on teachers: because teaching is not just a profession, it is a calling to shape the conscience of a generation.

The Realities of a Teacher’s Life

And yet, being a teacher today comes with struggles that are often invisible:

  • I am expected to look a certain way: put on lipstick, dye my hair, even if the chemicals harm me.

  • I must reach school not even a minute late, while other professions allow flexibility.

  • If a class misbehaves, I cannot openly discuss it; instead, whispers circulate that I “don’t know how to handle students.”

  • On my very first day in school, a student asked: “If you have a doctorate from IIT, why are you teaching in a school? Isn’t that low?”

  • After qualifying for NET and joining as a lecturer, even my own Master’s guide seemed disappointed that I had chosen teaching instead of research.

It made me wonder: Why is the teaching profession seen as “low” by so many?

Teaching: A Sacred Responsibility

Teaching, in reality, is far from “low.” It is perhaps one of the highest responsibilities one can carry. Because being a teacher is not just about delivering lessons; it is about living ideals. Children do not just listen to our words; they watch our lives.

In today’s world, where social media and entertainment often make slipping morals look “cool,” the role of a teacher is even more critical. It is not enough to preach values; we must embody them. Otherwise, our conscience will not let us rest.

A Gentle Reminder

Dr. Radhakrishnan believed that teachers are the true nation-builders. He saw teaching as a bridge between knowledge and wisdom, between ideals and action.

Yes, the profession may not always come with applause, but it comes with something deeper: the quiet satisfaction of shaping lives, of helping young minds see that ideals are not just theories but living truths.

This Teacher’s Day, as I reflect on my journey, I carry forward the words of my great-uncle not just as philosophy, but as a responsibility: to teach, to live with integrity, and to show children that wisdom, kindness, and courage will always matter.

 Teaching may not be glamorous, but the joy I feel when I see a child’s eyes sparkle with understanding, curiosity, or enthusiasm is priceless. Each moment of connecting with their innocence fills my day with meaning and nothing else can truly compare to that!

Tuesday, January 30, 2024

Self Esteem

 

Self-Esteem: The Foundation of a Meaningful Life

Self-esteem is not just a nice idea; it’s the foundation of how we live, love, and grow. How we contribute and relate to others in the world. It’s the quiet confidence that says: I matter. I am worthy. I am enough.

When our self-esteem is strong, we walk through life with clarity, courage, and joy. But when it is low, it silently shows up in our daily choices, habits, and relationships.

Signs We Don’t Love or Respect Ourselves

Often, we don’t even notice when we’re being unkind to ourselves. But low self-esteem reveals itself in subtle ways:

  • Living in chaos and disorder, instead of creating peace and clarity.

  • Creating debt and burdens, as if we don’t deserve financial freedom.

  • Scolding and criticizing ourselves, instead of offering kindness.

  • Mistreating our bodies with junk food, alcohol, or harmful habits.

  • Being afraid to charge a fair price for our work and skills.

  • Believing deep down that we are unlovable.

  • Procrastinating on things that actually benefit us.

  • Attracting people who belittle or abuse us, instead of respecting us.

Each of these is a gentle reminder: the way we treat ourselves is the clearest reflection of how much we value ourselves.

How to Build Self-Esteem

We can strengthen it every single day through small, intentional choices:

  • Create order and simplicity in your space — it brings peace to the mind.

  • Live within your means and let go of unnecessary burdens.

  • Replace self-criticism with encouraging words. Read affirmations.

  • Treat your body with care and nourishment.

  • Recognize your value and ask for fair compensation.

  • Take one small step today on something you’ve been postponing.

  • Surround yourself with people who respect and uplift you.

The Gentle Truth

Self-esteem is not about being perfect; it’s about being real. It’s choosing to respect yourself in small, everyday ways: the way you speak to yourself, the way you treat your body, the boundaries you set, and the relationships you allow.

When you love and respect yourself, life shifts. You no longer tolerate chaos, neglect, or abuse. Instead, you attract peace, respect, and joy.

So, stand tall. Believe in your worth. The world is waiting for your light. Affirm daily: “I am lovable. I am enough.”